The exact lemma appears at position 3,738 in the cited OpenSubtitles-derived Dutch 50k token list. That is a corpus signal, not search volume or a claim that every sense is equally common. Forms, glosses, pronunciation and cited examples are adapted from English Wiktionary via Kaikki under CC BY-SA 4.0. See sources and modifications.
How vrijen is pronounced
IPA: /ˈvrɛi̯ə(n)/
Pronunciation can vary by region and speaking context. Treat the transcription as a compact reference, then compare it with current native audio and practise the verb inside a phrase rather than as an isolated sound.
What vrijen means
to make love, to have sex
to make out, to cuddle, to hug and kiss
to have a relationship, to be a couple, to go out with someone
The English gloss identifies a sense, not a one-word substitution that works in every sentence. Check the object, preposition, reflexive pronoun or separable element in the Dutch example before transferring the verb to a new situation.
Vrijen conjugation table
| Tense | Subject | Dutch form |
|---|---|---|
| Present | ik | vrij |
| Present | jij (subject first) | vrijt |
| Present | hij/zij/het | vrijt |
| Present | wij/jullie/zij | vrijen |
| Simple past | singular | vree |
| Simple past | plural | vreeën |
| Past participle | — | gevreeën |
The table shows the standard subject-first jij anchor. Inversion after jij and formal u can require a different surface form. For separable verbs, the cited forms may already show the element in its natural main-clause position. In perfect constructions, choose the auxiliary required by the actual meaning and construction; do not attach hebben or zijn mechanically.
Translated vrijen examples
Het is heel belangrijk om veilig te vrijen.
It's very important to have safe sex.
En partners krijgen niet de echte reden te horen waarom er zo weinig gevreeën wordt.
And partners don’t get to hear the real reason why not much is happening in bed.
Zij vroeg haar vriendje om eerst gewoon te vrijen.
She asked her boyfriend to just kiss and hug first.
Zij heeft haar vriend Alex leren kennen op internet en ze vrijen al meer dan een jaar nu.
She met her boyfriend Alex on the Internet and now they've been going out together for more than a year already.
These examples are citation-backed language data. Use them to notice the verb's partners and sentence position. Then change only one detail at a time—subject, time, place or object—so that your next sentence stays grammatical and remains connected to a real communicative purpose.
Turn the reference into speaking practice
- Read the first example once and identify the finite verb, subject and any required particle or preposition.
- Build a new present-tense message with vrij or vrijt and add a concrete time or place.
- Move the same event into the past with vree; keep the meaning stable while changing the timeline.
- Use gevreeën in a complete result message after checking the correct auxiliary for that construction.
Record all four messages without restarting. Listen once for meaning and sentence order, then once for the target form. Correct only the first error that changes meaning or blocks the listener, and repeat the sentence with one new detail. This creates retrieval practice rather than table recitation.
Self-check
- The chosen sense matches the situation.
- The finite form agrees with the subject.
- The time marker and verb tense tell the same timeline.
- Any separable element, reflexive pronoun, object or fixed preposition is present.
- The sentence contains enough detail for another person to respond.
Questions about vrijen
What does vrijen mean?
to make love, to have sex; to make out, to cuddle, to hug and kiss; to have a relationship, to be a couple, to go out with someone.
What is the past tense of vrijen?
The cited standard singular anchor is vree and the plural anchor is vreeën.
What is the past participle of vrijen?
The cited past participle is gevreeën. Verify the auxiliary in the sentence you actually want to say.
Use vrijen in a recorded answer
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